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			\|summary=We condemn most strongly abusive behavior in any form. We denounce the physical, sexual, verbal, or emotional abuse of one’s spouse or children. Our proclamation on the family declares: “Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. … Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs. … Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations” (''Ensign'', Nov. 1995, 102).
			We are doing all we know how to do to stamp out this terrible evil. When there is recognition of equality between the husband and the wife, when there is acknowledgment that each child born into the world is a child of God, then there will follow a greater sense of responsibility to nurture, to help, to love with an enduring love those for whom we are responsible.
			No man who abuses his wife or children is worthy to hold the priesthood of God. No man who abuses his wife or children is worthy to be a member in good standing in this Church. The abuse of one’s spouse and children is a most serious offense before God, and any who indulge in it may expect to be disciplined by the Church.
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	* "I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>		* "I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>
	* "In a dating and courtship relationship, I would not have you spend five minutes with someone who belittles you, who is constantly critical of you, who is cruel at your expense and may even call it humor. Life is tough enough without having the person who is supposed to love you leading the assault on your self-esteem, your sense of dignity, your confidence, and your joy. In this person's care you deserve to feel physically safe and emotionally secure.<br><br>		* "In a dating and courtship relationship, I would not have you spend five minutes with someone who belittles you, who is constantly critical of you, who is cruel at your expense and may even call it humor. Life is tough enough without having the person who is supposed to love you leading the assault on your self-esteem, your sense of dignity, your confidence, and your joy. In this person's care you deserve to feel physically safe and emotionally secure.<br><br>
	:"Members of the First Presidency have taught that 'any form of physical or mental abuse to any woman is not worthy of any priesthood holder' and that no 'man who holds the priesthood of God [should] abuse his wife in any way, [or] demean or injure or take undue advantage of [any] woman'—and that includes friends, dates, sweethearts, and fiancées, to say nothing of wives."— Jeffrey R. Holland, apostle (2000)<ref>Jeffrey R. Holland, “[http://speeches.byu.edu/reader/reader.php?id=1618&x=58&y=7 How Do I Love Thee?]” Brigham Young University devotional, 15 February 2000; citing {{Ensign\|author=Gordon B. Hinckley (Church president, 1995–2008)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1982/10/reach-out-in-love-and-kindness?lang=eng Reach Out in Love and Kindness]\|date=November 1982\|pages=77}} and {{Ensign\|author=James E. Faust (Counselor in First Presidency, 1995–2007)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1988/04/the-highest-place-of-honor?lang=eng The Highest Place of Honor]]\|date=May 1988\|pages=37}}</ref>		:"Members of the First Presidency have taught that 'any form of physical or mental abuse to any woman is not worthy of any priesthood holder' and that no 'man who holds the priesthood of God [should] abuse his wife in any way, [or] demean or injure or take undue advantage of [any] woman'—and that includes friends, dates, sweethearts, and fiancées, to say nothing of wives."— Jeffrey R. Holland, apostle (2000)<ref>Jeffrey R. Holland, “[http://speeches.byu.edu/reader/reader.php?id=1618&x=58&y=7 How Do I Love Thee?]” Brigham Young University devotional, 15 February 2000; citing {{Ensign\|author=Gordon B. Hinckley (Church president, 1995–2008)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1982/10/reach-out-in-love-and-kindness?lang=eng Reach Out in Love and Kindness]\|date=November 1982\|pages=77}} and {{Ensign\|author=James E. Faust (Counselor in First Presidency, 1995–2007)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1988/04/the-highest-place-of-honor?lang=eng The Highest Place of Honor]]\|date=May 1988\|pages=37}}</ref><br><br>

			*"No man can please his Heavenly Father who fails to respect the daughters of God."—Gordon B. Hinckley (Church president, 1995–2008)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Gordon B. Hinckley\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1985/04/to-please-our-heavenly-father?lang=eng To Please Our Heavenly Father]\|date=May 1985\|pages=48}}</ref>
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	\|a=		\|a=Elder Marvin J. Ashton of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles wrote:

			:The safety and protection of each person, especially children, should be a concern for all of us. We can be instrumental in assisting in the protection of each other by being aware of potential dangers and being willing to do our part to thwart those who would injure, steal from, or abuse any person, young or old.<ref>Marvin J. Ashton, ''Be of Good Cheer'' (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 1987), 14.</ref>
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	* "I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>		* "I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>
	* "In a dating and courtship relationship, I would not have you spend five minutes with someone who belittles you, who is constantly critical of you, who is cruel at your expense and may even call it humor. Life is tough enough without having the person who is supposed to love you leading the assault on your self-esteem, your sense of dignity, your confidence, and your joy. In this person's care you deserve to feel physically safe and emotionally secure.<br><br>		* "In a dating and courtship relationship, I would not have you spend five minutes with someone who belittles you, who is constantly critical of you, who is cruel at your expense and may even call it humor. Life is tough enough without having the person who is supposed to love you leading the assault on your self-esteem, your sense of dignity, your confidence, and your joy. In this person's care you deserve to feel physically safe and emotionally secure.<br><br>
	:Members of the First Presidency have taught that "any form of physical or mental abuse to any woman is not worthy of any priesthood holder" and that no "man who holds the priesthood of God [should] abuse his wife in any way, [or] demean or injure or take undue advantage of [any] woman"—and that includes friends, dates, sweethearts, and fiancées, to say nothing of wives."— Jeffrey R. Holland, apostle (2000)<ref>Jeffrey R. Holland, “[http://speeches.byu.edu/reader/reader.php?id=1618&x=58&y=7 How Do I Love Thee?]” Brigham Young University devotional, 15 February 2000; citing {{Ensign\|author=Gordon B. Hinckley (Church president, 1995–2008)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1982/10/reach-out-in-love-and-kindness?lang=eng Reach Out in Love and Kindness]\|date=November 1982\|pages=77}} and {{Ensign\|author=James E. Faust (Counselor in First Presidency, 1995–2007)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1988/04/the-highest-place-of-honor?lang=eng The Highest Place of Honor]]\|date=May 1988\|pages=37}}</ref>		:"Members of the First Presidency have taught that 'any form of physical or mental abuse to any woman is not worthy of any priesthood holder' and that no 'man who holds the priesthood of God [should] abuse his wife in any way, [or] demean or injure or take undue advantage of [any] woman'—and that includes friends, dates, sweethearts, and fiancées, to say nothing of wives."— Jeffrey R. Holland, apostle (2000)<ref>Jeffrey R. Holland, “[http://speeches.byu.edu/reader/reader.php?id=1618&x=58&y=7 How Do I Love Thee?]” Brigham Young University devotional, 15 February 2000; citing {{Ensign\|author=Gordon B. Hinckley (Church president, 1995–2008)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1982/10/reach-out-in-love-and-kindness?lang=eng Reach Out in Love and Kindness]\|date=November 1982\|pages=77}} and {{Ensign\|author=James E. Faust (Counselor in First Presidency, 1995–2007)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1988/04/the-highest-place-of-honor?lang=eng The Highest Place of Honor]]\|date=May 1988\|pages=37}}</ref>

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	* "I can not understand how a man can be unkind to any woman, much less to the wife of his bosom, and the mother of his children, and I am told that there are those who are absolutely brutal, but they are unworthy the name of men"—Joseph F. Smith, Church President (1901–1918)<ref>''Young Woman's Journal'', Vol. 3, 1891-1892, pp. 142-144; cited in {{Book:Smith:Gospel Doctrine\|pages=352}}</ref><br><br>		* "I can not understand how a man can be unkind to any woman, much less to the wife of his bosom, and the mother of his children, and I am told that there are those who are absolutely brutal, but they are unworthy the name of men"—Joseph F. Smith, Church President (1901–1918)<ref>''Young Woman's Journal'', Vol. 3, 1891-1892, pp. 142-144; cited in {{Book:Smith:Gospel Doctrine\|pages=352}}</ref><br><br>

	"I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>		* "I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>
	* {{nw}}		* "In a dating and courtship relationship, I would not have you spend five minutes with someone who belittles you, who is constantly critical of you, who is cruel at your expense and may even call it humor. Life is tough enough without having the person who is supposed to love you leading the assault on your self-esteem, your sense of dignity, your confidence, and your joy. In this person's care you deserve to feel physically safe and emotionally secure.<br><br>
			:Members of the First Presidency have taught that "any form of physical or mental abuse to any woman is not worthy of any priesthood holder" and that no "man who holds the priesthood of God [should] abuse his wife in any way, [or] demean or injure or take undue advantage of [any] woman"—and that includes friends, dates, sweethearts, and fiancées, to say nothing of wives."— Jeffrey R. Holland, apostle (2000)<ref>Jeffrey R. Holland, “[http://speeches.byu.edu/reader/reader.php?id=1618&x=58&y=7 How Do I Love Thee?]” Brigham Young University devotional, 15 February 2000; citing {{Ensign\|author=Gordon B. Hinckley (Church president, 1995–2008)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1982/10/reach-out-in-love-and-kindness?lang=eng Reach Out in Love and Kindness]\|date=November 1982\|pages=77}} and {{Ensign\|author=James E. Faust (Counselor in First Presidency, 1995–2007)\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1988/04/the-highest-place-of-honor?lang=eng The Highest Place of Honor]]\|date=May 1988\|pages=37}}</ref>

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	* "I can not understand how a man can be unkind to any woman, much less to the wife of his bosom, and the mother of his children, and I am told that there are those who are absolutely brutal, but they are unworthy the name of men"~~<br><br>~~—Joseph F. Smith, Church President (1901–1918)<ref>''Young Woman's Journal'', Vol. 3, 1891-1892, pp. 142-144; cited in {{Book:Smith:Gospel Doctrine\|pages=352}}</ref>		* "I can not understand how a man can be unkind to any woman, much less to the wife of his bosom, and the mother of his children, and I am told that there are those who are absolutely brutal, but they are unworthy the name of men"—Joseph F. Smith, Church President (1901–1918)<ref>''Young Woman's Journal'', Vol. 3, 1891-1892, pp. 142-144; cited in {{Book:Smith:Gospel Doctrine\|pages=352}}</ref><br><br>

	"I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>		"I want to counsel you as sons, brothers, fathers, and husbands. As you serve with the women of the Church, follow what Paul said when he urged Timothy to “intreat … the elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity” ( 1 Tim. 5:1–2 ). We men of the priesthood ought to so do. We must be different than other men, and I am sure most priesthood holders are. Paul’s suggestion that we treat older women as if they were our mothers and younger women as if they were our sisters and to do so with “all purity” is excellent instruction. Men of the world may disregard women or see them only as objects of desire or as someone to be used for selfish purposes. Let us, however, be different in our conduct and in our relationships with women." — Spencer W. Kimball, Church President (1973–1975)<ref>{{Ensign\|author=Spencer W. Kimball\|article=[https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1978/10/fundamental-principles-to-ponder-and-live?lang=eng Fundamental Principles to Ponder and Live]\|date=November 1978}}</ref><br><br>